The
following are excerpts from a book of
conversations about R. D. Laing. The
participants are: Dr. Leon Redler, Dr. Steven
Gans and Dr. Bob Mullan. These conversations
took place in 1998 and early 1999 in Leon
Redler's therapy rooms at the Diorama Centre for
Art, Therapy and Technology, 34 Osnaburgh St.,
London NW1 3ND, and his home, in north London.
They range over many issues that bear closely on
Laing's life and work, including his
contributions and gifts to posterity, the
deleterious effects of fame (and excessive media
attention and denigration) on his public persona
and private life, the importance Laing accorded
to tradition, the discovery of the experiential
roots of wisdom for (and in) oneself, recent
developments in the Philadelphia Association,
and finally, the relationship between Laing,
Levinas and the prophetic voice. D.
B.
Laing's
Contribution and Gifts to Posterity
Bob:
Do you want to start talking about what the work of
Laing means? Is there a Laingian psychology? Is
there a Laingian psychotherapy?
Steve:
Well, you've got to start off making a distinction
between R. D. Laing, and the bearer of that name,
Ronnie Laing, the person. On the one hand, you've
got an R. D. Laing logo, almost a brand name, to
which at times Ronnie must have felt a prisoner,
and on the other hand Ronnie the ordinary bloke,
however extraordinary he might have been at times.
First of all, Ronnie was a writer who sold books,
and R. D. Laing was an important brand name that he
perpetuated. What he did best as a writer was very
artful and very important. He was a translator and
mediator; he communicated original work of the most
serious people -- people in the
phenomenological tradition, the psychoanalytic
tradition, the social science tradition, the Palo
Alto group family therapy, pragmatics of
communication - a whole range of subjects. He was a
polymath -- a guy who knew a lot about a lot
of things, from experience in a deep way, in a way
that was quite esoteric. And yet he was able to
make what he knew accessible to a wide audience. He
tried to work with a whole variety of different
issues, concepts, all focused on the problem of
madness and mad people. How could anything we know
about whatever, help us address ourselves to
madness in some way that was useful, that could
relieve the suffering that madness caused?
His
most original contribution, the source of his
inspiration, what he wrote about and where he wrote
from, was the time that he spent listening
to mad people. Before Ronnie, few psychiatrists, if
any, spoke with such a good ear for madness. There
were others including Freud, Jung, Fromm-Reichman
and Rosen, who attempted in some way to decode
mad-speak, but Ronnie "hung out" with mad people.
He was first of all a guy who, with people who were
seen as mad, entered into a kind of a friendship;
he created space that hadn't before opened up,
between himself and the "mad." Also he was very
plastic and mimetic, so he could imitate and get
into other people's moods, thoughts, language, and
world, including those of so-called "mad" people.
And he was able to bring back and speak of what it
was like to be "mad" (more or less). This gave
"mad" people an enormous sense of relief. Someone
heard them. They were not alone. Madness was not
unreason, a total unintelligibility, a total
difference between the sane and the insane. Ronnie
showed that we're all in it together. There was not
an unbridgeable gulf between sanity and madness:
rather there is a continuum. Mad people felt that
"this guy really understands what I'm going
through." This proved extremely helpful for people
who thought they were going mad, or who were told
they were mad. So madness was the
centerpiece or preoccupation around which he
brought to bear the vast array of his
multifaceted erudition. He took up numerous
intellectual traditions as they might be relevant
to a the study of madness, bringing all of these
facets into the public domain and making the issue
accessible, so that people could understand what
was at stake. This was Ronnie Laing's great
contribution, a sort of pantheoretical
consideration of madness.
Leon:
There's no "Laingian" psychotherapy with a
particular zone and body of knowledge, methodology,
and techniques that are traceable back to Laing
that other people are following. He didn't teach
that way. Those who think that they're practicing a
Laingian psychology or psychotherapy probably
missed the point. Beyond what he experienced and
read, he was a creative and profound thinker, and
an iconoclast, not an ideologist.
Bob:
Dan Burston, in his biography, claims that
retrospectively Ronnie will be considered to be as
important as Freud and Jung (Burston, 1996). I
can't myself see where he gets that from, and I
certainly have very little interest in Jung.
Steve:
I think that at one level Ronnie will be seen to be
a classic. He will enter into the canonical
works of psychology/psychoanalysis. He won't be
forgotten. The Divided Self is a landmark
work that will be read and reread, appreciated and
repeatedly rediscovered in years to come. Now in
terms of a kind of ground-breaking contribution,
the magnitude of output, the enormity of the
consequences, Ronnie does not compare with Freud,
probably not. Nevertheless in Ronnie's way of
putting these things I would say both were alpha
plus minds.
Fame
and Infamy: Media Attention and
Denigration
Steve:
Ronnie was the first media figure in this
field. The media then controlled people's
perceptions about him. I think he was somewhat
innocent, thinking that the media was probably a
good thing. At first, he thought he could use the
media to kind of spread the importance of what he
was trying to do, and maybe change things. But I
don't think he counted on the viciousness of the
media, how the press will build someone up to sell
papers and then will tear them down to sell papers.
What he started to get after his honeymoon period
with the media was tremendous discredit. Once he
had peaked, he suffered abuse. The media created
the "reality" about him that they claimed to
portray. Then Ronnie started to become a caricature
of himself in public. And I think as his press got
worse and worse it was very disheartening, more and
more, to the point where he became cynical and said
"Well at least they're saying something about me."
The bitter irony in the title of the TV program he
made toward the end, Did You Used To Be R. D.
Laing?, said it all. People thought they knew
in advance what he was doing-- that is, drinking.
The drinking thing was important, but I don't think
that he or anybody fully fathomed the place it had
in his life for him. He didn't suffer fools gladly.
People would often speak in ways that were
discordant for him. You could see how this would
pain him tremendously, almost like scratching chalk
on a blackboard, and it would just send shivers
through him. And I think he felt at times that his
exquisite sensitivity and sensibility had to be
dampened down by drink.
Leon:
He was a fine musician with an exquisite ear,
and it's as though he couldn't bear hearing someone
playing or singing out of tune, or screwing up the
rhythm. But I'm not sure that he took drink to dull
those senses. That might have been part of the
story some of the time but I remember he once said
he needed it to get going, in terms of creative
work. Also, against your interpretation or
inference that he drank to make himself less
sensitive, when he was very sloshed he wasn't any
less sensitive to deception and lies.
Steve:
I think one more thing can be said about
Ronnie's drinking. Ronnie was very aware that he
was a screen for people's projections and
fantasies. He was constantly being taken to be a
guru. Of course to some extent he staged himself as
being one. But I think that he was often quite
consciously trying to dismantle this idealization
or group transference. When he gave lectures or
talks, he must have felt that the sycophancy that
surrounded him needed to be challenged, that people
had to get out of this adulation of him. Often
Ronnie was surrounded by people who thought that he
was the fount of all wisdom. But he wanted to put
things on a more equal level. I think he was driven
to tearing himself to shreds, to sacrificing
himself, holding himself up to ridicule, to show
that he had feet of clay. Unfortunately, this only
intensified his cult following. On the other hand,
the more sober were not willing to hear the truth
in the things that he was saying, since they were
not said in a way that was expected, in an academic
way. Ronnie spoke in a much more direct,
experiential way, speaking from the heart, and they
couldn't listen.
Leon:
In the Tibetan Buddhist
tradition1
there's an injunction to attend to or listen to the
teaching, not the teacher. That is, don't get hung
up on judging the teacher. Attend to the
teaching.
You are
reminded that it's your responsibility to find and
pick a teacher, and you shouldn't accept someone as
your teacher, assuming that he accepts you as a
student, without being careful about this matter,
maybe taking some time over it, and you might have
to make certain judgements, saying "for me, at this
time, this teacher, as he is at this time, is not
for me." Now there are some analogies with Ronnie
... because ... he was for some people a kind of
teacher, a kind of guru. It's nothing that he ever
explicitly claimed; I don't think he ever
explicitly denied it either ... And certainly he
was a master of some sort, you know, like one talks
of ... being a Zen master or an adept of some kind
in the Dharma tradition. At the same time, like
other similar characters who aren't situated within
a bounded, formal tradition, he was trying to
deconstruct that all the time for people. But if
someone is a great adept, the more he tries to
deconstruct that, and divest others of the illusion
that he is someone special, he's also confirming
the fact that he's got something to teach. Now
Ronnie behaved badly on many occasions, in terms of
being rude or insulting or fucking-up things, but I
think that he never lost a basic integrity
...
Bob:
Leon knew him longer than most, and the tragedy
for me really was reading about him as a student,
and then spending a lot of time with him at the end
of his life, and I will never ever forget these
final images which were just so different from all
the other images-- the images of a man in exile, a
man who was loathed by the establishment, a man
under-rated, a man written-off, and all the time
struggling with illness, being with a young child.
And this had a profound effect on me, you know
seeing how people can be destroyed.
Leon:
When you say he was destroyed, what do you
mean?
Bob:
Well I think that if he was a man of a
different culture, say French, he wouldn't have
suffered such a lack of appreciation. I mean he
really did want to be loved and respected by the
establishment, as all rebels do. And of course they
just could not forgive him.
Steve:
One of the people Ronnie (admired) was
Nietzsche. For him Nietzsche had the kind of ear,
and the kind of sharpness and brilliance and biting
irony that Ronnie most admired, and it was
Nietzsche who said that people can't take too much
of the truth. And I think that Ronnie was aware
that he was a truth-teller, and that people
couldn't take it. Successively with one person
after another, he got to the point where there was
an unpalatable truth that he told, that came out,
that was not tolerated, and little by little he
burnt his bridges. He wasn't prepared to play the
game that would have given him fortune, love, and
fame; rather he got infamy as thanks for telling
the truth-- he wasn't thanked for it.
Leon:
Although he certainly wanted fortune and fame
...
Steve:
He wanted fortune and fame. But not at the
price of giving up telling the truth, according to
him.
Bob:
Leon, one of the things that has always struck
me as being interesting is your kind of magnanimous
attitude towards Ronnie, given the unpleasant
things he said in Mad to be Normal (1995)
about you. On the one hand he says "Leon is a
little bit different from some of the others,"
meaning Shatzman and Joe Berke, and that "at one
time I would have called him my friend," and "he
used to come around and sing with me," but it was
all pretty disparaging.
Leon:
Well I did actually comment on that, in my
article for your book, R. D. Laing: Creative
Destroyer (Cassell, London, 1997). I found it
unpleasant and hurtful. But it was a difficult
relationship, and we had, you know, fallen out and
apart, by the early to mid-eighties. I don't think
what you call my magnanimity is a function of
idealizing him, of putting him on a pedestal, or a
sort of unrelenting positive transference of some
kind, but (rather) of respect and appreciation for
what he taught and gave. He would have been either
a saint or unreal if he didn't, at times, get fed
up or feel let down by me. I think I was often
inattentive or thick, relative to him, anyhow, and
did defer to him much of the time in a way that was
unhealthy for a friendship.
Steve:
I agree with Leon that we let him down. We were
inadequate to the task of confronting him enough,
and in a responsible way. There could have been
something more creative to come of some moments,
that were quite terrifying in which he erupted and
blew up. They were not actually all that terrible,
except that they could and sometimes did destroy
friendships ... Ronnie was asking for some kind of
engagement that would be of sufficient strength to
hold him in such a way so that he wouldn't be
allowed to go on a rampage. Now the guy who could
really do that for him, and who did do that for
him, was Hugh Crawford. And in many ways it was
when Hugh (Crawford) died that Ronnie became a
rogue elephant.
Leon:
I think most of us let him down. I feel I let
him down. I definitely think I wasn't responsible
enough and, in no small part, that's probably why I
was often on the receiving end of his wrath ...
Well, "let him who has not sinned cast the first
stone."
Steve:
If we knew then what we know now!
Wisdom,
Tradition and Going to the Source
Leon:
... One of the things Ronnie often said in
terms of some profound learning was, "Don't get it
from the Babylonian Talmud, get it from where the
Babylonian Talmud got it from." Now one could
interpret that in various ways. But one of those
ways that I think is valid is: don't get it from
any source of knowledge in terms of, say a text or
body of knowledge, or any ritual, or any tradition;
get it from where that's getting it from, get it at
source. Now I think he did that. I've met a few
people who probably are in that league in terms of
getting it from source. It is a kind of wisdom and
compassion. I'd say he was an enlightened being.
Not one without flaws, not absolutely free and
clear, but well on the way. Now I'm sure a lot of
people would consider that an idealization of
Ronnie, maybe including many of the people closest
to him ... Nevertheless this was a special guy . .
.He was tuned-in to something, he was tuned-in to
some of the greatest traditions, in the West and in
the East, of deep, deep understanding. Deep
understanding that can't really be separated from
either wisdom or love.
Steve:
We had a reading group in which we read
Heidegger, and it was quite interesting because he
would come in there with a deft kind of acuity,
squeezing out the juice at the core of what
Heidegger was on about, speak of it, and then that
was the end of it. It wouldn't be like most people
who would be discussing this sort of thing who
spend eight, ten weeks dealing with each nuance and
making a meal of it. He really was into getting the
nourishment at the heart of it, but he wasn't into
the development of it particularly for its own
sake, as a kind of an elaboration. And so not only
did he not write about his spiritual life, he
didn't write about his intellectual life. He was a
thinker, but he never really wrote about the depths
at which he was thinking or the texts with which he
was engaged. But when you say spirit, it's
reminding me of this kind of wordplay, or
word-playing, because the word "spirit" also means
"spirits," the alcohol that we were talking about,
but it also means spirits in the term of spooks, or
being haunted-- so it's not clear what spirit
really means. There's no way one can separate one
kind of spirit from another kind of spirit
absolutely. So I think actually that there's a way
in which Ronnie was haunted by spirits of which his
spiritual life was an outcome, and that he had a
sense of connecting with, as Leon said, sources,
and being kind of the conduit through which the
legacies and the inheritances of these traditions
would come. And in so far as he did that, he was
prepared to pay the price. A legacy that you
inherit has a cost that you have to pay. You just
don't get a transmission without it changing your
life. In fact many people who read all this
spiritual material, or even become quite
academically proficient in it, are relatively
clueless as to the heart of the matter, and hence
remain indifferent to the heart.
The
Philadelphia Association
Bob:
One of the things I really want to talk about
is his attitude to love. One of Ronnie's quotes
that I like is the one about the absence of love,
or even the absence of the memory of love, or the
absence of a memory of a hallucination of love--
you know, Ronnie says that without these life would
not be worth living. How was love defined in his
life, and how did he live that?
Leon:
In The Politics of Experience (1967) he
writes about love as letting the other be with
concern and affection. I think he was pretty good
at letting others be. There wasn't always
affection, but neither was there pretence at
affection. But letting the other be is already a
certain kind of affection. This is one of the
things he taught just by how he was, and may be one
of the most valuable things that we took away from
our time with him.
Steve:
It's not by accident that the Philadelphia
Association got its name from the Greek
roots -- philia--delphos ,
brotherly and sisterly love. Philia also has
an affinity with agape, which is a kind of
fellow feeling, a kind of kinship with your fellow
man. This is a kind of leaving, allowing, giving
permission, letting be. I've never really come
across anyone who was less likely to lay a trip on
anyone than Ronnie. He wasn't trying to induce
people to conform and collude with his expectations
in order to make him feel better. He was not trying
to enlist others to become the supporting cast in
his scenario. He was not trying to get a particular
reaction from someone, to be a mirror for him to
reflect back to him how he wanted to see himself.
It was very liberating for anyone to be allowed to
be in that way by him.
Bob:
(to Leon) Do you think you've been elected as
Chairman of the PA because you were seen as his
protégé?
Leon:
No, but maybe someone else better answer that
one. I don't think so.
Steve:
I think that Leon was seen as Ronnie's
protégé when Ronnie was part of the
company ...
Leon:
Which I think worked against me.
Steve:
It probably did. And now I think that as time
has gone on, elapsed, Leon has uncoupled from being
a Ronnie protégé, but he is someone
who embodies the tradition that Ronnie generated in
setting up the Philadelphia Association, which was
intended to be something like an academy in the
Platonic sense, if you will. It was meant to be a
scene in which a whole range of diverse influences
would meet and perhaps inspire one another. In the
days when I just came round in the early 70s there
were within the PA scenes within scenes, scenes
that would deal with the body, scenes that would
deal with theatre, scenes that would deal with
birthing, scenes that would deal with a whole range
of ways of addressing mental distress and
suffering, of which psychotherapy would only be one
strand. As time went on, and part of the reason for
the blow-up that resulted in Ronnie leaving, and
shaped the way the Philadelphia Association
developed after that, was the desire on the part of
some members to become more acceptable within the
psychotherapy community as a psychoanalytic
psychotherapy training organization. The
Philadelphia Association with Ronnie, the enfant
terrible, as Chair was seen as a radical
organization, not properly
psychoanalytic-psychotherapeutic. This all shifted
when Ronnie left and the UKCP (the United Kingdom
Council for Psychotherapy) started. We were more
and more seen not only to be offering the
equivalent to all the groups in terms of the rigor
and structure of our psychoanalytic course, but we
were also offering on top a philosophical critique
of psychoanalysis dismantling some of the rather
crude psychologistic thinking that is rife in
psychoanalytic circles. So the PA gained more of a
good reputation after Ronnie. But after Ronnie
there was no one amongst the group who took the
lead to orchestrate the Philadelphia Association.
No one took over for Ronnie as Chair. We more or
less saw ourselves as a kind of collective
leadership, and the movement of the association a
kind of consensus of the collective; no-one wanted
to be put in the center, or put anyone in the
center, and so on. Eventually we started to fall
out with one another. And Leon was chosen as the
one person who everyone felt was fair. Not only was
he even-handed and not biased in one way or the
other, but he kept alive our eclipsed tradition. As
it turned out the group split. There were those who
really did not want to continue in what I would
consider the tradition of the Philadelphia
Association. They really wanted to belong to the
psychoanalytically orientated psychotherapy
institution, and forget about anything else. And
they saw us as die-hards, as those who wanted to
preserve Ronnie's legacy and move on from
there.
Leon:
I hope I wasn't unfair. There was no question that
I was completely against the Philadelphia
Association being reduced to being a psychoanalytic
psychotherapy training organization; it was well on
the way to becoming that, or indeed had pretty much
become that. That was a betrayal of the tradition,
and certainly of the best of Laing, and the best of
what brought us together ...
Steve:
But you were still fair in allowing everyone a
place who wanted one, and in seeing our differences
as not ultimately incompatible.
Leon:
I was insisting that the Philadelphia Association
was a charity concerned with mental suffering and
the radical relief of mental suffering.
Steve:
And you got the support of the great majority
of the members who agreed with you.
Leon:
It hadn't been sufficiently articulated until I
began to articulate it.
Steve:
No, it was eroding slowly and imperceptibly in
a way that people were not really noticing
...
Leon:
So that even some of the members who haven't
split off, who are still our colleagues, aren't
wanting much more than a psychoanalytic
psychotherapy training organization. They are
probably somewhat suspicious and distrustful of me
as Chair, and the of direction in which Steve and I
both want to move: in essence, not going back to
how things were, but going back to the source, to
the roots of what in the association, in the name
of philia, once inspired us and others.
Bob:
(to Leon) I always thought the Philadelphia
Association was centrally concerned with
phenomenologically inspired research programs. That
it was about phenomenological enquiry ...
Steve:
Well I agree, I think that phenomenology is the
basis of continental thinking, and all continental
thinking that is contemporary takes its jumping-off
point from the analysis of experience started by
Husserl. This is a rigorous way of looking at
experience and meaning, a way of giving attention,
and being mindful of how experience is constituted
and how things come to mean. But I think that what
happened within the phenomenological tradition, and
more recently, say in the last fifty years, was
that a lot of the students of Husserl and Heidegger
broke away from strict phenomenology, so that you
get a Foucault who talks history, you get a Derrida
who talks about the complexities of language, you
get a Levinas who talks about ethics, you get a
whole new set of initiatives, that ... are
inspiring ... us in various ways. So jumping off
from phenomenology ... and moving more into ...
post-modern thinking-- whatever exactly you may
mean by post-modern-- is in play at the moment, and
we're too involved in it to see it in
perspective.
Bob:
Leon, you passed that question on to Steve -
why?
Leon:
Probably because Steve grew up intellectually
in the phenomenological tradition, and has taught
in the phenomenological tradition, and is much more
versed in the Western phenomenological tradition
than I am ...
Bob:
But as Chairman, do you simply chair other
people's views and intentions and interests?
Steve:
I feel that he's being unduly modest. Leon can
also lay claim to quite an education in
phenomenological and more contemporary
discourses.
Leon:
I've got my own points of view, and they've
been deeply informed by phenomenology. Particularly
phenomenology as mediated through Laing initially,
and then more through Heidegger than Husserl, and
perhaps most importantly in terms of what I would
call Eastern phenomenology ... I think ... the
phenomenological tradition was being eroded over
the last few years with this concentration on and
privileging of psychoanalytic psychotherapy.
Bob:
I think we should devote an hour to Levinas,
because that's clearly what you two are mainly
interested in ... I was interested when you said
then that you went through the modern proponents of
phenomenology and his name came up. It's not how I
would have seen him.
Leon:
Well Levinas was a student of Husserl and
Heidegger.
Steve:
Brought them to France, initially ...
Leon:
And ...
Steve:
Introduced Sartre, for example, to Husserl and
Heidegger ...
Bob:
I thought he was a contemporary man, but he
isn't obviously?
Leon:
Levinas?
Bob:
Is he dead?
Leon:
A couple of years ago.
Steve:
He lived a long time.
Bob:
How long?
Leon:
He lived till his late eighties. He died on
Christmas day, 1995.
Laing,
Levinas and the Prophetic Voice: Mullan and
Redler
Bob
Mullan:
Emmanuel
Levinas. work derives from the encounter between
two cultures: Judaism and modern philosophy. Hebrew
and Greek. Born in Lithuania in 1906, he was
educated in Germany as well as France, where he
eventually became naturalised. He studied with the
phenomenologists Edmund Husserl and Martin
Heidegger, and also engaged in Talmudic studies.
Unlike his family in Lithuania, he survived the
Holocaust, spending five years as a French POW in a
German internment camp. The Holocaust and his
encounter with totalitarianism forever marked
Levinas. work.
The
central theme in Levinas. life work was his abiding
concern with the well-being of the other person: in
particular, the suffering and powerless other. the
widow, the orphan, the stranger. L. Autrie,
the Other, refers to the alterity of this other who
calls us to responsibility. Alterity can not be
known or possessed, can not be made mine, including
through knowledge. The Other is not just different
but singular. In his work, he sought not only to
describe our responsibility for, and our duty to
respect the difference of, the other person, but
also to place our relationship with the other
person at the very center of life (Levinas, 1969).
Like Martin Buber, Levinas expounded a philosophy
of intersubjectivity and dialogue. But whereas
Buber described the relation between persons in
terms of mutuality, communion and reciprocity,
Levinas described the relation between oneself and
the suffering other in terms of command, duty and
responsibility. In Levinas. view, the cry of the
other cannot go unheeded. This response of
responsibility to the cry of the other. what
Levinas terms the ethical relation. makes
imperative the pursuit of justice in the world at
large. For Levinas, denizen of both Greek and
Hebrew worlds, institutions, society, the work of
justice, and philosophy itself all have their
genesis in the ethical response of one person to
another2.
Leon
Redler:
In a
recent book entitled Just Listening: Ethics and
Therapy, Steven Gans and I call for ethics as
therapy and therapy as ethics. Ethics and justice
are at the heart of the matters that matter between
us. By "ethics," I mean ethics as articulated by
the late Emmanuel Levinas, ethics arising from our
being always already called upon to respond in
responsibility to the call of the Other, the Other
who commands us from an ethical height while
beseeching us from her lowly position of nakedness
and vulnerability. By justice I mean the extension
of the face to face responsibility for the Other to
all the other Others, that which is due each and
every Other.
We have
not taken to heart, not embodied or integrated into
our lives the radical critiques and questionings of
great thinkers, poets, prophets and spiritual
teachers we claim to respect and value. We haven't
sufficiently taken on board, the need to radically
question our ways of being, and to put
ourselves in question ... and consider that
most of us, much of the time, may have got the
wrong end of the stick ... or, more to the point,
whether, as Isaiah prophesied, we are turned around
and away backwards, turned 180 degrees in the wrong
direction, missing the mark ... living in sin
and/or ignorance.
The
ethical way is consistent with a 180 degree
turning. It. s a turn from a predominant
self-centeredness, to a centrifugal flow toward the
Other, toward and for what is precisely not me or
mine ... for the alterity of the Other is precisely
not mine (I cannot know the Other, as knowing makes
of what I know something of mine, something I
appropriate). Of course, we cannot neglect our own
care, the care of the responsible one, nor is it at
all likely we can ever step completely outside the
circle of a narcissistic economy. But, as Jacques
Derrida has said in an interview, we can open
things up a bit, make the narcissism more porous
and generous. In Derrida. s words: "There is not
narcissism and non-narcissism; there are
narcissisms that are more or less comprehensive,
generous, open, extended. What is called
non-narcissism is in general but the economy of a
much more welcoming, hospitable, narcissism, one
that is much more open to the experience of the
other as other" (Derrida, cited in Caputo, 1997,
p.149).
Laing
read some of Levinas' work. "Levinas" was literally
the last word in his book, The Voice of
Experience. He was perhaps moving in a
Levinasian direction in his last, unpublished,
writings. Laing was, in his own way, attuned to the
prevailing ignorance and malaise and nearly driven
to the edge by the denial, unawareness, spiritual
stupidity, stubbornness and/or dishonesty of many
implicated in contributing to it and/or suffering
the consequences of it. He had the ears,
sensitivity and heart to hear and respond to the
call of the distressed, and to call us all on our
part in generating some of it. He was a target for
the old tendency to shoot the bearer of bad news,
or the prophet calling for radical change in how we
live with and treat one another.
He
helped me to learn that it's incumbent on us to
make our own diagnoses, to see through the nature
of the malaise of those who seek our help and act
accordingly. But like Albert Camus in The
Plague, Laing also posed the question: what if
we're all caught up in a severe spiritual
pandemic? What if the pervasive scope and
character of our malaise meant that few of us who
aspire to be healers are likely either to be free
of it, immune to it, or healed of it? Laing alerted
us forcefully to this problematic. His work
deserves to be remembered and revisited
often3.
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